A stock image shows teenagers drinking at a house party. Allowing underage teens to consume alcohol at home may normalize drinking, increasing the risk of alcohol dependency and other unhealthy habits later in life, according to a study in the journal Addictive Behaviors. While some parents view this as a way to supervise drinking and reduce harm, the study found that parental provision of alcohol can lead to future alcohol-related issues.
The study highlights that even small sips or tastes of alcohol in early adolescence can predict heavy drinking and alcohol-related problems in young adulthood. Regardless of the age at which children are allowed to experiment with alcohol, there is a strong link between parental permission during adolescence and increased alcohol consumption, alcohol use disorder symptoms, and alcohol-related harm later on.
Clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour, author of The Emotional Lives of Teenagers, cautioned against the misconception that allowing underage drinking at home is a harm reduction strategy. Normalizing underage drinking is not advisable, she emphasized. She stressed that while drinking at home may seem safer than with friends, it is ultimately safest for minors to abstain from alcohol entirely.
Contrary to the belief that supervised drinking at home fosters moderation, data suggests that kids who drink under parental supervision tend to consume more alcohol, do so more frequently, and encounter more alcohol-related issues. Dr. Damour encouraged parents to model a healthy relationship with alcohol, emphasizing moderation and the enjoyment of social activities without it.
Maintaining open communication with children is crucial, as they may make mistakes. Dr. Damour recommended creating a safe environment where kids feel comfortable reaching out for help if needed. While consequences may follow, she stressed the importance of keeping the lines of communication open.
