A bride is feeling upset that her grandparents will not be attending either of her two weddings. She shared her disappointment in a Reddit post, expressing that despite knowing the dates of both weddings in advance, her grandparents have chosen to travel to Europe instead. The bride mentioned that her grandparents are not old and are active for their age, making it easy for them to attend the weddings, but they have decided not to do so. Reddit users empathized with the bride’s feelings of hurt and suggested that she accept the monetary wedding gift from her grandparents, even though she initially refused.
Their absence, the missed opportunity to witness that, and I encourage you to concentrate on those who will be present to rejoice with you.