A woman’s family wasn’t pleased when she declined a handmade outfit for a significant event. She clarified why this wasn’t the right time for a DIY project, causing a family debate. Her sister-in-law now accuses her of being superficial. Seeking advice on Reddit, she expressed her love and support for her niece’s creative expression, willing to wear handmade items casually but declined a dress for a career event. Despite appreciating her niece’s efforts, she noted the shortcomings in sewing skills. Her niece’s preference for using thrifted materials and skipping finishing touches raised concerns. When her niece insisted on making an outfit for the event, she gently declined, citing her professional appearance as a plus-sized woman under scrutiny. Criticized for her decision, she defended her boundaries and career-focused priorities.
The writer emphasizes the importance of her sister-in-law’s child in her life and seeks advice on Reddit regarding prioritizing her career over her niece’s feelings. One commenter suggests avoiding sharing information to prevent criticism and politely ending conversations when needed. Another commenter, with experience as a seamstress, highlights the significance of proper finishing techniques in garment making and advises the writer to guide her niece in improving her skills before attempting a formal gown. The article can be found on People’s website.
