A woman was left feeling “shocked” and “disgusted” after visiting her date’s untidy bathroom for the first time. She shared her unpleasant experience on the U.K.-based forum Mumsnet, where she questioned whether she should continue dating him. Despite initially thinking he was a well-put-together individual with a good job and intelligence, she was appalled by the dirty state of his bathroom during her recent visit. The woman expressed her discomfort and disbelief at the cleanliness of the bathroom, highlighting hair on the floor and overall uncleanliness. The situation left her feeling sick and reluctant to use the facilities. She wondered why her date did not clean up before her visit and questioned his lack of embarrassment over the situation. Despite his interest in meeting again, the woman was put off by the experience and dreaded the thought of using his bathroom in the future. Seeking advice from other Mumsnet users, she asked if her reaction was justified, receiving responses of agreement and disgust from fellow members. Some suggested that it was not unreasonable to expect basic cleanliness from an adult man, especially at the early stages of a relationship. The woman was puzzled by the stark contrast between her date’s good presentation and the state of his bathroom.
