In the latest episode of The White Lotus Season 3, Sam Rockwell makes a surprise appearance as Frank, a former party animal turned sober expat in Thailand. Reuniting with his old friend Rick, Frank shares his transformation journey, revealing how he found solace in Buddhism after a surreal sexual odyssey.
The episode breaks from the show’s usual structure, starting in the evening and carrying on into the night, exploring desires and attachments through a Buddhist lens. When Rick meets Frank at a Bangkok hotel bar, it becomes clear that the reunion is not just a social visit – Rick has requested a gun from Frank to seek revenge on the hotel owner who killed his father.
Rockwell’s portrayal of Frank delves into the character’s inner turmoil, depicting his reckless pursuit of pleasure and eventual realization of the emptiness in his actions. Frank’s candid confession about his exploration of gender identity and seeking to understand the perspective of the women he was involved with adds a layer of complexity to the narrative.
The episode unravels a wild and introspective journey, challenging viewers to confront the darker aspects of desire and self-discovery. Rockwell’s performance as Frank adds depth to the exploration of identity and transformation in the exotic backdrop of Thailand.
Hire a local woman to watch. “I’d think: I am her. And I’m watching me.” This situation involves a complex mix of desire and identity. It would be a mistake to view Frank’s story as a coming-out narrative; how he identifies regarding gender or sexuality is not the main point. The focus is on the fluidity of identity and the enigma of attraction. It is often unclear if we desire to possess others (even temporarily) or to become them, whether they are our opposites or our mirrors. Frank delves into a fundamental confusion, possibly ingrained in Western culture, between our desires and our true selves.
Frank draws a direct link between his peculiar sexual escapades and his Buddhist awakening. Exhausted from chasing pleasure endlessly, he now seeks enlightenment through concepts like “spirit versus form,” detachment from the ego, and breaking free from the cycle of desire and suffering. However, he admits he still misses the physical pleasures he used to indulge in. Rick, on the other hand, seems oblivious to these profound ideas, consumed by his desire for revenge, unable to detach from his ego. As Frank shares his insights, Rick is consumed by thoughts of vengeance, trapped in a fanciful plot to avenge his father’s death.
The theme of desire and its complexities permeates the episode, from the Full Moon Party to Jaclyn & Co.’s night out on the town. Valentin takes Jaclyn, Kate, and Lori on a night out with his Russian friends, where Lori’s desire for Valentin is apparent. Though Lori tries to attract attention through bold dance moves and daring acts, she ultimately lets Valentin leave without making a move, to Jaclyn’s disappointment. Later on, it is Jaclyn who initiates a sexual encounter with Valentin, indicating her willingness to fulfill her desires without hesitation.
Jaclyn, the mastermind behind the extravagant trip, emerges as a character driven by her desires, aligning her with the manipulative Saxon, who is determined to assert his dominance. Their actions reflect a narrative intertwined with the complexities of human desires and the consequences they can bring.
In the midst of a yacht voyage to the Full Moon Party with Chloe and the Le Bon sisters, Saxon imparts his life philosophy to his younger brother, Lochlan. He emphasizes the importance of confidence in getting people to do what you want, noting that many individuals are unsure of their desires and are simply waiting to be guided. This contrasts sharply with Frank’s beliefs, who values ideals over personal wants. Lochlan, on the other hand, questions the materialistic mindset, pondering whether life is a test to become better individuals.
The episode delves into the complex dynamics within the Ratliff family, showcasing Piper’s revelation about her true intentions for the family trip and Tim’s internal struggles. Piper’s desire to find happiness clashes with her mother’s disapproval of her choices, while Tim grapples with suicidal thoughts amidst family turmoil. The contrasting desires and actions of each family member paint a vivid picture of internal and external conflicts.
Despite the dark undertones, there are moments of genuine connection and introspection, such as Piper’s quest for happiness and Tim’s plea for guidance in a moment of despair. The episode highlights the intricate web of desires and motivations that shape each character’s journey, offering a glimpse into their struggles and aspirations.
Experience a moment of joy as Belinda (Natasha Rothwell) and Pornchai (Dom Hetrakul) share a gentle kiss at the bedside. Belinda, not accustomed to vocalizing her desires, sweetly stumbles as she invites him to join her in bed (“Whatever’s clever”). This scene stands out from the other plotlines, allowing for a sense of uncertainty when it comes to pursuing earthly desires. It brings a sense of fulfillment to this long-suffering character, granting her a longing she has held for so long—and in the process, fulfilling the heartfelt wishes of dedicated viewers who have supported her through the years. For more information, reach out to us at letters@time.com.
